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My Teenager is Freaking Out That We’re Moving!
Question: Allana, My youngest is entering high school next year and we just received military orders to move. He is FREAKING out! How can we get him on the same page? And excited about the move?...
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I’m 19. My Year Long Relationship Has Been A Bumpy Ride!
Question: I’m 19 and I’m going through a bit with a relationship of mine. I was wondering if there would be any way for us to talk about how things could play out? I really really love this girl. I...
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I Walked In On My GF Kissing Another Man!
Question: Coach Allana, I walked in on my girlfriend kissing another man! She said it was a mistake, she was vulnerable and he was saying all the right things at the right time. She was so confused....
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My Wife Says She Doesn’t Love Me But She Won’t Leave Either!
Question: I think my wife doesn’t like me and I don’t know why. I haven’t done anything wrong, I believe. She won’t answer my calls and when I ask her about it when she gets home, she just blows me...
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Are Dating Sites Still Taboo?
Question: Do you feel online dating sites are still taboo? Answer: Thank you for your question. I’m grateful as it’s a curious one to me… I didn’t know dating sites were considered taboo. However I...
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My GF says she’s ‘fine’… yet she’s not. What gives?
Question: What methods can you suggest to help my girlfriend be more open and forward in communicating? She’s a “fine” person. Nothing’s ever wrong. She’s “fine”. Then I find out days or weeks later...
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My Husband Whines. How Do I Get Him To Stop?
Question: Coach Allana, how do you handle an emotional person who wants to whine about everything? My husband and I are going through a tough time, not each other, just life in general. I’m handing...
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My wife wants more kids… and I don’t!
Question: I’ve been married to my beautiful wife for 12 yrs. We have two amazing children and as far as I am concerned, our family is complete. She wants to be a stay at home mom and I’m completely...
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It’s been so long, I can’t even pleasure myself!
Question: I have been single and without sex for so long, I can’t even pleasure myself! Seriously, I get bored part way through it. What is wrong with me? Answer: Nothings wrong with you my love,...
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This mouse likes to play when the cat’s away…
Question: When the cat is away, this little mouse likes to play. When my husband is away, I hook up with my ex-boyfriend. I know it is wrong but I just can’t stop doing it. I have tried to cut him off...
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Should I Believe in Soulmates?
Question: Do you believe in soulmates? Can you define what it actually means to someone who may be skeptical? Answer: I think your skepticism is valid. There are a lot of definitions out there that...
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My son is asking so many questions about the man he’s never met… his Father.
Question: Allana, I am trying so hard to be strong for my child but every time my little boy asks me about his father (who isn’t in the picture), my heart breaks. What do I say to him? Why is he...
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I need a new girl before I leave the old girl. How do I stop this cycle?
Question: Coach, I have finally figured out something with the help of a friend of mine. I can’t move on from one girl/woman without meeting another. I am still hung up on my ex-girlfriend but I...
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I don’t want to scare off my new GF before the ball drops!
Question: What is the sweetest thing a man can do in a new relationship around the holidays that won’t scare off a new girlfriend. And…go! Answer: I totally understand that you want to do something...
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I met the “office wife’ at the Holiday Party
Question: I went to a holiday party with my husband and one of his co-workers was a little more handsy than I would have liked. My husband told me that she was his “office wife” and that it was...
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Table Talk
Gentlemen in Training The Case for Manners for Today’s Young Men – Part 9 The holidays mean food. Lots of it. Hot chocolate. Cookies. Big meals. You name it. We’ve been binging, no doubt, and my wife...
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Has feminism has ruined the dynamic between men and women?
Question: At Holidays parties I’m dumfounded by how men and women act! Do you believe feminism has ruined the dynamic between men and women. I welcome women being strong and fierce BUT men don’t know...
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I kissed my roommate on New Years Eve!
Question: I kissed my roommate on New Years Eve! I am freaking out. I didn’t mean for it to happen. We were drinking and we have always been flirtatious with each other but I never thought anything of...
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Any advice on making NY’s Resolutions?
Question: What advise do you have on making resolutions? I always feel like I make the same stupid ones every year. How do you determine your goals for the new year? Answer: I’m so glad that I’m both...
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The baby’s daddy is trying to ruin our family!
Question: My girlfriend’s baby’s daddy is trying to break us up. He keeps telling her that their child deserves a family, her family (her mom and dad) instead of some guy raising her. I love her...
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